tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30581938251063357512024-03-05T01:55:51.592-08:00The Ragamuffin Warrior TribuneThe is the log and news update of the recovery and day-to-day life of Ari Schaffer as she grows mentally and spiritually in Christ. ragamuffin: 1) a ragged, disreputable person; tatterdemalion. 2) a child in ragged, ill-fitting, dirty clothes.Arihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11312860729445018727noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3058193825106335751.post-54734079109649881062019-05-18T22:01:00.000-07:002019-05-18T22:01:02.831-07:00Ree Cahira - Recovery Warrior<h3>
Catch-up March 2019-Now </h3>
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So, things were sooo hectic since March, but since we're done I'll try to catch you up in bullet form...<br />
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<li> We finally got moved and finished it all by Saint Patrick's Day</li>
<li>We moved back to the apartments I used to live in from 2011-2015....</li>
<li>We had to catch up the cats' shots</li>
<li>The cats both feel more at home here than the other place, and they've gotten quite comfotable</li>
<li>My roommate and I are grateful for the build of the place and also to not be dealing with Aric</li>
<li>We both have been keeping the place clean for the most part</li>
<li>I'm sloooowly unpacking and sorting through my junk with her help</li>
<li>I just hit 1 year and 9 months 4 days ago when it comes with my selfharm recovery</li>
<li>I haven't smoked for 1 month and 2 weeks.</li>
<li>I've been trying to keep up with my dailyaudiobible but I fell 5 days behind once again.</li>
<li>I reach level 120 on Habitica with keeping up with my life goals</li>
<li>Been lifting weights, walking, and exercising more often lately, but been falling behind the past few days here too</li>
<li>Been tracing back on my old poetry and sharing them as throwbacks</li>
<li>Enjoying Habitica, Gaiaonline, and ZEPETO (new avatar maker),lately</li>
<li>Making a mixed playlist of my favourite songs too.</li>
<li>Joining plenty of Christian furry groups and making new friends as well</li>
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Researching Faith, Recovering, and Ree-chan...Huzzah!</h3>
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Like the video says.... My fursona('s)/daughter, Ree's Bday is on the 23rd! She is now a year old! But who is she? Well, she is a parable manifested as a fursona.... in other words, her very story and existence has a meaning that is very attuned to my life and recovery as I grow. She is a Dragonic Gryphon (in other words her father is a dragon and her mother is a gryphon, "but I'm okay with that" ;) notice the VeggieTales reference? lolz!). Her full name is Recovery Cahira Aarin Donnhaidgh. Her middle name meaning "warrior" so that along with her first name it said "Recovery Warrior" hehe! Aarin is my main fursona's last name (Misty Aarin was meant to form M. Aari[n] to spell out the pronunciation of my penname "Mari") and Donnhaidgh was her father's last name (and a Scottish clan I was adopted into).... And like her father, she can shapeshift as she is shifter dragonic gryphon heh...<br />
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Since I hit my 1 yr and 9 month mark already that's why her bday is coming.... I created her on my 9 month mark. in 3 months I will hit my 2 year mark! I'm so proud of myself in this but atm I'm building Ree as a character based on my current progress and future atm that means just writing her bio and drawin her but soon I'll make a fantasy-based fictional diary/journal of her journeys and life on <a href="http://www.wattpad.com/user/braveyunvagabond/">my wattpad</a>.<br />
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Luceo Non Uro,<br />
AriArihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11312860729445018727noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3058193825106335751.post-69910397437107308892019-02-17T05:37:00.002-08:002019-02-17T05:37:59.794-08:00Recovery Log: 02/16/2019<div id="comslider_in_point_1773629">
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Date: 02/16/2019<br />
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<i><b>9:00pm</b></i><br />
Meal: Dinner<br />
What?: Gluten-free ramen w/ carrots<br />
Location: Home<br />
Company: Alone <br />
Hunger feel: 78%<br />
Hunger: Eaten<br />
Sated: 26%<br />
Binge: 70%<br />
Dehydration: n/a<br />
Excessive drinking: n/a<br />
Excessive sport: n/a<br />
Laxatives: n/a<br />
Purge: n/a<br />
Feelings: Anxiety, Guilt shame<br />
Thoughts: n/a<br />
Moon Phase: 3 day until full moon<br />
Weather: partly cloudy<br />
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<i><b>7:04 pm 02/16/2019</b></i><br />
🚫no self harm: 1 year 6 months 4 days<br />
🚫❌ no porn: 15 hours<br />
🚭 no smoking: RELAPSED<br />
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1 year recovery goal hit. So 1 year and....:<br />
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1 MONTH (395 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
2 MONTH (425 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
3 MONTH (455 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
4 MONTH (485 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
5 MONTH (515 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
6 MONTH (545 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
7 MONTH (575 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
8 MONTH (605 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
9 MONTH (635 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
10 MONTH (665 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
11 MONTH (695 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
12 MONTH (725 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
2 YEAR (730 DAYS) MARK HIT<br />
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Time Clean Before Last Relapse: 28 days<br />
Longest Time Clean: 1 year 7 months 2 weeks and 2 days days cleanArihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11312860729445018727noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3058193825106335751.post-74513419804864764502019-02-16T04:39:00.003-08:002019-02-16T04:39:49.585-08:00Discomfort, Selfcare, & Rest (Feb. 14-15)<b><i>Thursday, Feb. 14, 2019</i></b><br />
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Self-Care Valentines Day</h2>
So Valentine's Day! And to say I was in a great deal of discomfort would be a huge understatement. Most of the day was spent itching, scratching and in excruciating agony.<br />
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The reason for this discomfort was due to breaking out in hives on my hands, wrists, knees, shins, ankles, and feet. It started in the afternoon of the thirteenth but only around my wrists. Then it began to spread and burn even more than it had before. Barely able to walk, I had to rest and stop packing and wait this out.<br />
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At least I was able to do what I loved and take some time for myself. Writing, updating blogs, napping and keeping track of my recovery. I rested and most of the day and woke up at about 11pm and at my second meal and tracked my process, also checked on my many social medias.<br />
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Scripture</h2>
So, the day's passages on Daily Audio Bible was read from the Contemporary English Version.<br />
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<li>Exodus 37-38</li>
<li>Matthew 28</li>
<li>Psalm 34:11-22</li>
<li>Proverbs 9:9-10</li>
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But the main part of Scripture I wanted to talk about was the fact that when my friend was struggling with the toxicity of the church. I wanted to share the main points I said to her<br />
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"These verses are very true of [toxic] situation[s], and much of the
reason we rarely find a good church and it seems most churches are is
due to these verses being true... Though it is hard to find a good
church there are a few that simply worth all the time, frustration,
tears, and patience waiting for it. As for me, I know there are good
churches. I go to one and it was well worth the wait and search." <br />
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<li>Matthew 7:13-14</li>
<li>Matthew 7:21-23</li>
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<i><b>Friday, Feb. 15, 2019</b></i><br />
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Self-care...</h2>
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More Rest; Feeling Much Better</h3>
Not much was done today either. I was still recovering from the breakout, but I took a few naps due to pure exhaustion. Once I was done, I woke up and felt much better, but it was already 9pm. I ate a nice meal of carrots, gluten-free garlic bread, and baked chicken.<br />
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Meanwhile, I watched all the new episodes of The Dragon Prince and truly enjoyed it. I also caught up with RWBY. I know I haven't accomplished much but I'm sure I'll be able to pack at least two boxes a day, starting tomorrow. Haven't felt well at all lately and just recuperated...<br />
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Progress and then a relapse</h3>
<b><i>8:26 am (02/15)</i></b><br />
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<li>🚫❌no porn: 5 days 6 hours</li>
<li>🚭no smoking: 43 hours </li>
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<b><i>11:14 pm (02/15)</i></b><br />
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<li>🚫❌no porn: 5 days 21 hours</li>
<li>🚭no smoking: 76 hours</li>
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<i><b>2:24 am (02/16)</b></i><br />
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<li>🚫❌no porn: 6 days</li>
<li>🚭no smoking: 79 hours</li>
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<i><b>4:54 am (02/16)</b></i><br />
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<li>🚫❌no porn: RELAPSED</li>
<li>🚭no smoking: 80 hours</li>
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<i><b>6:58 am (02/16)</b></i><br />
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<li>🚫❌no porn: 2 hours</li>
<li>🚭no smoking: RELAPSED</li>
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Siiighh... Today's been stressful despite feeling better physically. All day I dealt with an urge to escape my extreme anxious and depressive emotions. I struggled to keep up with my recovery but ended up relapsing and escaping my emotions but for a moment. First I desperately tried to numb myself through porn then I felt great shame and coped with a cigarette... Before I relapsed, though I went to someone, but gave in minutes after talking it out... Siiigh...<br />
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Throwbacks</h2>
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<li>2018 (A Year Ago) - Alright, 2018 was spent preparing to move in, and spent with the cat. We had stock up on groceries and items for cleaning and I was outspoken about a lot of political and spiritual topics as I always am.</li>
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<li>2017 (2 Years Ago) - 2017 was spent having shame and remorse over breaking the law, getting arrested, and coming back. It was around this time, I would cut far too deeply... I wrote poetry a lot to get me through that.</li>
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<i>BONUS SCRIPT: I'll be honest, 2017 was a hard time. So much changed that year... I was arrested, came out of jail, was mistreated and humiliated by a church leader over having a mental illness and openly speaking of my struggles and victories, before being kicked out, I relapsed after 1 year 7 months 2 weeks and 2 days of not cutting, lost three close friends, spent the whole year doing PTI, and hosting a guest (who is now my roommate) and several cats, not to mention hosting my brother. You'd think I'd look on 2017 in spite... But I thank God for what he did to strengthen me through the fire. It was because of what happened in 2017 that I am where I am now, mentoring 3 people and able to do so without co-dependence weighing me down. I once though 2017 was the biggest breakdown I ever had but it was a holy awakening.</i>Arihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11312860729445018727noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3058193825106335751.post-61775085164831289082019-02-15T20:21:00.000-08:002019-02-16T20:21:32.792-08:00Recovery Log: 02/15/2019Date: Friday, 02/15/2019<br />
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<i><b>1:18 am</b></i><br />
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Meal: Snack<br />
What?: Gluten-free chicken salad sammich<br />
Location: Home<br />
Company: Kin<br />
Hunger feel: 82%<br />
Hunger: Eaten<br />
Sated: 100%<br />
Binge: n/a<br />
Dehydration: n/a<br />
Excessive drinking: n/a<br />
Excessive sport: n/a<br />
Laxatives: n/a<br />
Purge: n/a<br />
Feelings: Joy, Pleasure, Anxiety <br />
Thoughts: n/a<br />
Moon Phase: 5 days until the full moon<br />
Weather: Sunny<br />
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<i><b>9:01pm</b></i><br />
Meal: Dinner<br />
What?: Baked chicken, carrots, and garlic bread<br />
Location: Home<br />
Company: Alone<br />
Hunger feel: 93%<br />
Hunger: Eaten<br />
Sated: 100%<br />
Binge: n/a<br />
Dehydration: n/a<br />
Excessive drinking: n/a<br />
Excessive sport: n/a<br />
Laxatives: n/a<br />
Purge: n/a<br />
Feelings: Joy, Pleasure, Shame, Anxiety <br />
Thoughts: n/a<br />
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🚫no self harm: 1 year 6 months 4 days (549 days)<br />
🚫❌ no porn: RELAPSED 4 hours ago<br />
🚭 no smoking: RELAPSED 2 hours ago<br />
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1 year recovery goal hit. So 1 year and....:<br />
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1 MONTH (395 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
2 MONTH (425 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
3 MONTH (455 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
4 MONTH (485 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
5 MONTH (515 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
6 MONTH (545 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️<br />
7 MONTH (575 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
8 MONTH (605 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
9 MONTH (635 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
10 MONTH (665 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
11 MONTH (695 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
12 MONTH (725 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />
2 YEAR (730 DAYS) MARK HIT<br />
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Time Clean Before Last Relapse: 28 days<br />
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Milestones, Recovery, & Celebration</h2>
Welp, I have finally hit my 1 & 1/2-Year Mark since my last relapse in selfharm! And in the meantime, I am having to go cold turkey on cigarettes again as I was stuck in the habit of smoking again... And I am taking my addiction of pornography seriously and working hard towards changing my coping skills to spiritually and mentally healthier alternatives.<br />
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As of 4:47am, I've reached the following markers....<br />
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<li>🚫no selfharm: 1 1/2 year </li>
<li>🚫❌no porn: 87hrs</li>
<li>🚭no smoking: 21hrs </li>
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So far there has been a lot to celebrate. I've made it through the trials of my faith, recovery, etc. quite successfully. And I've been truly blessed with a for of stability and calm... however, I've learned that only God could've gotten this far. Maturing in my faith and recovery has made it possible to mentor even in my harder times...I've also come to realize that I need Yeshua as much in the quiet and good times as I do in the trials... perhaps even moreso. <br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Throwbacks</span></h2>
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<i><span style="font-size: small;">On This Day...</span></i></h3>
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<li>2018 (A Year Ago...) - My brother, roommate and I start settling into our new apart at this time. As I make at least the living room a place to enjoy company. The cats were so darn relieved to finally get out of my parents' place as we had 9 mammals (3 cats & 6 people) in our small house. We were so crammed it made things very stressful for my folks and our cats... So finally seeing them comfortable and calm was such a beautiful thing!</li>
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<li>2017 (2 Years Ago) - When I lived with my folks, after we had moved from our old home to the one they're living in now... they started building a school where we used to live... I felt really depressed too but otherwise we were preparing to move while I did PTI in order to clear my name of my shoplifting... which I truly regret.</li>
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<i><span style="font-size: small;">Art Improvement</span></i></h3>
Lately, I have been going through many a memory due to nostalgia. And have truly found improvement in my art. These are a few selfie arts!<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i>Intro</i></span></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">So I updated my style of <a href="https://ragamuffinwarriortribune.blogspot.com/search/label/Recovery%20Log">recovery logs </a>in a way that will also keep track of many more aspects including tracking my eating disorder, feelings, urges, thoughts, moon phases, and weather!</span> </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><i>Meteorology, Astronomy & Psychology</i></span></h3>
So, one of my science projects was to prove that the moon phases affect not only bodies of water such as waves and currents but also affects our bodies as we are 80-something% water... So, not only to prove that, but to keep track of my own health, I'm keeping the moon phases and weather in mind for later!<br />
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<i><span style="font-size: small;">To Manage an ED </span></i></h3>
In the meantime, I'm also keeping track of my eating disorder/urges and factors that play in on how I feel on two apps called Moody and Jourvie... They also inspired the build of my logs! :D<br />
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<br />Arihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11312860729445018727noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3058193825106335751.post-88633491497124368572019-02-13T22:55:00.001-08:002019-02-13T22:59:46.429-08:00Recovery Log: 02/14/2019<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Meal: Breakfast<br />What?: Gluten-free chicken noodle soup<br />Location: At home<br />Company: alone<br />Hunger: feel 29%<br />Hunger: eaten<br />Sated: 68%<br />Binge: Done: 72%<br />Dehydration: n/a<br />Excessive drinking: n/a<br />Excessive sport: n/a<br />Laxatives: n/a<br />Purge: n/a<br />Feelings: Anxiety, Shame, Sadness, Guilt, Disgust, Anger<br />Thoughts: overthinking about the move, bad memories, just generally depressed...<br />Weather: Sunny. Cold<br />——<br /><br /><h4>
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Meal: Dinner<br />What?: nothing<br />Location: At home<br />Company: alone<br />Hunger: feel 97%<br />Hunger: not eaten<br />Sated: 0%<br />Binge: 0%<br />Dehydration: n/a<br />Excessive drinking: n/a<br />Excessive sport: n/a<br />Laxatives: n/a<br />Purge: n/a<br />Feelings: Anxiety, Shame, Sadness, Guilt, Disgust<br />Thoughts: overthinking about the move, bad memories, just generally depressed...<br />Moon Phase: 6 days until the full moon<br />Weather: Partly Cloudy, cool<br /><br />——<br /><br />Self harm: 1 year 5 month 3 weeks 1 day (546 days) clean<br />Porn/erotica: 81hrs (3 days & 9 hrs)<br />Smoking: 20hrs<br />——<br /><br />1 year recovery goal hit. So 1 year and....:<br /><br />1 MONTH (395 DAYS) MARK HIT <img src="https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/f8/1/16/2694.png" /><br />2 MONTH (425 DAYS) MARK HIT <img src="https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/f8/1/16/2694.png" /><br />3 MONTH (455 DAYS) MARK HIT <img src="https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/f8/1/16/2694.png" /><br />4 MONTH (485 DAYS) MARK HIT <img src="https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/f8/1/16/2694.png" /><br />5 MONTH (515 DAYS) MARK HIT <img src="https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/f8/1/16/2694.png" /><br />6 MONTH (545 DAYS) MARK HIT <img src="https://static.xx.fbcdn.net/images/emoji.php/v9/f8/1/16/2694.png" /><br />7 MONTH (575 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />8 MONTH (605 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />9 MONTH (635 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />10 MONTH (665 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />11 MONTH (695 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />12 MONTH (725 DAYS) MARK HIT <br />2 YEAR (730 DAYS) MARK HIT<br /><br />——<br /><br />Time Clean Before Last Relapse: 28 days<br />Longest Time Clean: 1 year 7 months 2 weeks and 2 days days cleanArihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11312860729445018727noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3058193825106335751.post-58262280798607376802019-02-13T06:00:00.000-08:002019-02-13T20:37:47.338-08:00Recovery Log 2/13/2019<div id="comslider_in_point_1771436">
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Meal: After-midnight snack <br />
What?: Gluten-free Chicken Salad Sammich <br />
Location: At Home <br />
Company: Alone <br />
Hunger: 70% <br />
Hunger: Eaten <br />
Sated: 100% <br />
Binge: 27% Urge <br />
Dehydration: n/a <br />
Excessive drinking: n/a <br />
Excessive sport: n/a <br />
Laxatives: n/a <br />
Purge: n/a <br />
Feelings: Pleasure, Shame, Guilt, Sadness, Joy, Anxiety <br />
Thoughts: mixed emotions... and Gluten-free chicken noodle soup ready for lunch tomorrow <br />
Moon Phase: First Quarter/Half Moon<br />
Weather: Wet, Foggy <br />
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Self harm: 1 year 5 month 3 weeks (545 days) clean <br />
Porn/erotica: 54hrs <br />
Smoking: 4hrs <br />
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<li>1 MONTH (395 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️ </li>
<li>2 MONTH (425 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️ </li>
<li>3 MONTH (455 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️ </li>
<li>4 MONTH (485 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️ </li>
<li>5 MONTH (515 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️ </li>
<li>6 MONTH (545 DAYS) MARK HIT ⚔️ </li>
<li>7 MONTH (575 DAYS) MARK HIT </li>
<li>8 MONTH (605 DAYS) MARK HIT </li>
<li>9 MONTH (635 DAYS) MARK HIT </li>
<li>10 MONTH (665 DAYS) MARK HIT </li>
<li>11 MONTH (695 DAYS) MARK HIT </li>
<li>12 MONTH (725 DAYS) MARK HIT </li>
<li>2 YEAR (730 DAYS) MARK HIT </li>
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Time Clean Before Last Relapse: 28 days <br />
Longest Time Clean: 1 year 7 months 2 weeks and 2 days days clean<br />
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Well not a whole lot happened today but I think what I did do was a huge achievement... *deep breaths...* So a big sign of my depression is I let my hygiene work fall apart... today I broke that cycle and I cleaned up... took a bubble bath, in essential oils too and then chilled before tackling my hair... After cuddling with Whisper a bit and watching my kitty on a comfy mattress, I finally tackled my tangled and quickly growing hair. Shaved the side of my head and brushed it out... now I love how it turned out!<br />
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Whew... so yeah... other than that, I did a few more graphics as well as posting some encouragement for myself on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/thegryphonwing">Facebook</a>...And as Valentine's Day is on its way, I made a profile picture in honour of it lolz!<br />
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Anyway, not much done save for those and doing whatever...Except that I hit my 1 year and a half mark that day after tomorrow! Thanx for reading this weird bit of news...Arihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11312860729445018727noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3058193825106335751.post-87081367972880310802019-02-11T23:12:00.000-08:002019-02-12T02:15:26.502-08:00December 2018 - February 2019: We Cont;nue<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;"> This is randomized and somewhat out of order, but it shows highlights of Dec. 2018 and New Years 2019</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">Christmas was fun-ish and a I catsat my folks for Christmas while they went to Disney World! Sebastian was tons of work, feeding him and giving him some playtime and cuddles... which brought out some weird moodswings on his end. He growled, purred, cuddled closer, then scratched me, growled and cuddled some more... it was weird... Before they left, they gave me Incredibles 2 and a Disney Christmas ornament. After they came back, they brought the best rice crispy treats ever (dipped in marshmallow and chocolate!) and a really awesome Inside Out pin! I got an old Disney World pin from our 2004 visit back... It had been with mum all this time... haha!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">My mental health was iffy during such time. I wasn't getting along with my brother and roommate at that time and I needed space as while so this escape was well needed. Catsitting Sebastian was just as much a Christmas gift to me as it was for my parents. Going back to my house was tough, however. I faced my roommate and made amends at some point around then and then prepped for our move. At the time, we were hoping to get out in February 3rd... (which didn't end up that way save for Aric moving out on time)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">So a lot has been changing here... Other than moving soon (now we have until March 3rd...) I have been recovering slowly and also taking up mentoring others in their recovery and helping my roommate with her own faith. Furthermore, I made one last confrontation to my former pastor at Merge. Once I said what was needed, and I was dismissed, I was able to let it go. Yet, it's more of an apathetic way, at this time. But I've not been burdened anymore, after expressing myself. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">I've also been listening to my <a href="http://www.dailyaudiobible.com/">Daily Audio Bible </a>each day and listening to political and theological speeches a lot lately. Maintaining a peaceful attitude after this. Meanwhile, also keeping up on psychological speeches as well. Not to mention been steadily picking up the habit of updating <a href="http://www.lightformi.com/">LIGHTforMI </a>quite regularly with coping skills and apps/sites that have proven beneficial in both mine and others' recovery. And starting up a chat group on <a href="https://discord.gg/jgnKyZw">Discord</a> after being kicked out of yet another Christian group, but this time because I am a furry.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">Sooo... I've thought if I can join a group that is accepting of both Christian furries and mentally ill Christians... then I'll make one heh... so far, my goal is to get 50 members in it and so far, no such luck. Anyhoo... I'll keep trying, slowly... maybe aim for 5 right now. I've also started making new blogs as well... </span></span><a href="https://ragamuffinwarriortavern.blogspot.com/">Ye Ragamuffin and Warrior Tavern</a>, <a href="https://gaelicinklingsncosplays.blogspot.com/">Inklings & Cosplays of a Gaelic Child</a>. And buying memberships for <a href="https://4thewords.com/">4thewords</a> (here's <a href="https://4thewords.com/about-gryphonwin">my profile</a>), <a href="https://www.worldanvil.com/author/thegryphonwing">World Anvil</a>, and <a href="https://www.deviantart.com/thegryphonwing">deviantart </a>(which ended heh...)</div>
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So a little ways back, I did a commission for a friend who offered $30/hr for me to make him a book cover. I ended up earning $75 for the job and since then, focused on working on graphics more often. Editing a few blog templates and making FB covers and profile pictures. It's been therapeutic as I've been doing that and packing up.</div>
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Moreover, I've been paying for some memberships as said before... It's been keeping up my creative flow while I've been stressing. Coping with several things has proven helpful for me as well as gaining inspirations from shows like Steven Universe, iZombie, The Dragon Prince, and other shows...</div>
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So, lately, as the New Years' come and gone I've been rather nostalgic. Been throwing back whenever I wanted to 10 years ago, and going through my mum's old family photo folder and posting them up. As well as throwing back to my old art... You'll see some highlighted in the video above!</div>
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The Ragamuffin Warrior Tribune began on my main Instagram. But, I wished to continue it on here from the 260th day of 2018... So here we are! :)<br />
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So the hurricane is passed, and I'm safe. The good news the hurricane was a kick-starter to me taking my recovery seriously again. So, during that time, I cleaned like crazy to cope with my anxiety and like said on Instagram, I started using Habitica and taking on multiple challenges and it led to me looking up my Body-focused Repetitive Behaviours (BFRB) and focusing all my energy on my habit of picking. Trying anything I could, I tended to my sores each time I picked at it and worked hard towards using healthier sensation habits. I continued to struggle with it, however.<br />
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Otherwise, I began to decorate my private and public computer area. In my bedroom, where I have my private computer area, I put up an area on my wall for me to have my Story ideas and Recovery Plans/Reminders. And in my public area, I decorated with art from me and my father. Afterward I began drawing for my "Recovery Cahira" Project, where I characterize my recover as a child. Combining my hobbies in art, furries, storywriting and gryphons.<br />
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Throughout the day, I watched my favourite TV shows, BBC's Merlin and my new favourite, The Dragon Prince. I still continued to have high levels of stress and anxiety until Sunday afternoon, when the hurricane threat was over. And I stayed up until 10 am Monday. But that's alright, as nightime is my time to shine in all my creativity. But, I then woke up at 7 pm. </div>
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